 |
 WALLENSTEIN RUBINSTEIN Mozart Haydn RCA Shaded Dog 1S 4S Audiophile Near Mint  US $7.99
|
 Flower series Metallic Dog Cat Pet Personalized Collar Bowl cloth brush Maltese US $9.95
|
 MUNCH Bloch Schelomo PIATEGORSKY RCA Shaded Dog 5S 6S Audiophile Near Mint US $7.99
|
 25 VTG 2 TONE ROOTED HAIR TROLL 1 2 ORANGE 1 2 LIGHT BROWN DARLING DRESS v370 US $19.99
|
 FIEDLER Liszt RCA Shaded Dog 7S 9S Audiophile Near Mint US $9.99
|
 Beetle three dimentional Yellow Gel case for Samsung Galaxy S i9000 T959 Vibrant US $14.90
|
 My Chemical Romance hoodie Black Parade Size L US $6.00
|
 Beetle three dimentional White soft jelly case Gel case for iphone4g 4s US $14.90
|
 Hedgehog three dimentional Hot Pink soft jelly case Gel case for iphone4g 4s US $15.90
|
 25 VTG DAM REG DES TROLL MIXED COLOR HAIR AMBER EYES TRENDY INDIE OUTFIT v371 US $19.99
|
 DogCat Clothes Crowned Cat Embroidered Polo Shirts A307 Pinksz XXL US $11.60
|
 25 VTG DAM c64 TROLL NEW ORANGE MOHAIR ORIG AMBER EYES FABULOUS FROCK v372 US $24.99
|
 Shopping printing Jelly case Gel case for Samsung Galaxy S2 i9100 US $6.99
|
 Rainbow Jelly case Gel case for iphone 4g US $6.99
|
 25 VTG DAM c64 TROLL MULTI TONE BLUE HAIR ORIG AMBER EYES AWESOME DRESS v373 US $25.49
|
 Two tone leather case blackred TPU case for iphone4g 4s US $15.90
|
 Books for Kids Danger The Dog Yard Cat by Libby Riddles Iditarod Winner US $1.99
|
 25 VTG DAM c64 TROLL ORIG WHITE HAIR AMBER EYES LOOKS LIKE A PRINCESS v375 US $25.49
|
 Cat Printed Foldable PVC Plastic Pet Bowl Orange White US $4.39
|
 Chic wallet style navy high quality Genuine leather Suede case for iphone4g 4s US $38.90
|
| Add Ebay Auctions to your Website |
Common Causes Of Divorce Might Be Fighting Like Cats & Dogs
Don't Let Fighting Like Cats & Dogs be Causes Of Divorce
Have you ever had an occasion to watch a batch of kittens or puppies. Cute little devils aren't they? Chewing on each other's ears, playfully slapping each other around and chasing their tails. A little bit of friendly growling and gentle calling out now and then.
And then it happens. One of them takes it a bit too far. What was all fun and games has become a serious confrontation and a warning to back off. The fur is about to hit the fan. The situation has suddenly become volatile.
Does this description resemble you as a married couple? Is your turf being challenged more often than not? When one or the other's space is invaded to far it is the rule more than the exception for someone to come out swinging verbally and sometimes physically. It is only a matter of time until this kind of jostling will put someone in the hospital and someone in jail and/or divorce court.
It is a given, when couples are quarreling like cats and dogs, they are competing, not complimenting each other. They are destroying, not building. They are piling up the causes of divorce.
Contending does not benefit anyone. The outcomes are anything but positive. There is always more than one loser. The one is just not smart enough to realize it. He might win the battle, but he will almost always lose the war.
Quarreling will never cause peace, good feelings, closeness and intimacy. It will lead to retaliation, hard feelings, anger, bitterness and sooner or later someone getting more than their feelings bruised.
Expectations are the cause for contention and explosive situations. It is easy to expect great things from our spouse because we care about them. But when those expectations take away someones individuality and agency they have become destructive to not only the person but the relationship. The very thing sought for has vanished into a hail of verbal assaults and maybe much more.
It is not without reason cops hate to go out on domestic disputes. It is their job, but most of them care enough to help you save your marriage and your futures.
Have you noticed when the red flag went up in puppy battles, the situation is not pushed any further. The whole thing is diffused as fast as it was lit. Within minutes they are back to being best buds and falling to sleep in each other's tangled legs or getting another meal from mother.
I find it interesting our four legged friends have no expectations of each other, other than to be left alone when the choose to be left alone. I have noticed almost always that expectation is honored and respected.
I think we as mankind can something from our animal friends. Instead of striking out at each other take a time out. Give each other the same respect and space we ourselves demand.
Realize this, we each have a right to our point of view. Someone else's opinion is no more valid than our own.
I have just as much right to tap my fingers as you have not to. If my finger tapping is an annoyance to you does your annoyance take predominance over my desire to tap away? No it does not. Your desire not to tap may be an annoyance to me. If my tapping is annoying you, remove yourself from my area. I should not have to stop or relocate to stop bothering you.
It is possible, if difficult to internalize this concept. It is simply a choice to be kind and loving and tolerant of each other and eliminate the causes of divorce from our relationships.
About the Author
Do you find your marriage in trouble?Common causes of divorce are caused by miscommunication or worse? You can download the MagicOfMakingUpWorks.com here to help you save your marriage now by learning how to communicate.
Justin knows the pain and agony of divorce and devistating affects on children. He writes to educate couple to a better relationhship. Common Causes of Divorce Part 1
Talking Kitty Cat - Dogs Can't Talk
|
|
Wilton 2304-1050 101-Piece Cookie Cutter Set $11.15 Christmas, Halloween, Easter, Valentine's Day...cookie cutters for every season, and more! With a complete set of letters and numbers, designs for cowboys, stars, cars and animals, you'll be ready for any occasion. Durable plastic cutters come in a convenient storage container. Hand wash. (2-1/2 to 6-1/4)... |
|
|
Wilton Animal Pals 50-Piece Cookie Cutter Set $5.91 Bring your favorite animals to life with the Wilton 50-Piece Animal Pals Cookie Cutter Set. This economical set of plastic cookie cutters contains 50 animals ready for you to turn ordinary cookie dough into a great adventure! Use these fun cutters for countless food and craft projects like shaped brownies, sandwiches, gelatin treats, clay, plaster, and much more! Sizes range from 2-1/2" to 4".... |
|
|
Purse Size Deluxe Coupon Organizer Wallet ToCart #59 $12.99 Finally! The "Deluxe" Purse Size Coupon Organizer that is AMERICAN MADE! It is made of durable, colorful, material 4 1/2" X 8". It not only attaches to the cart, as in the picture, but will attach to any side of the cart, and to the handle also. Most purse size coupon organizers come with paper-thin divider cards, but the "Deluxe" Purse Size Coupon Organizer has 24 durable cards with tabs, made fr... |
|
|
Bolt (Three-Disc Edition w/ Standard DVD + Digital Copy + BD Live) [Blu-ray] $22.87 Features include: •MPAA Rating: PG•Format: Blu-Ray•Runtime: 97 minutes... |
|
|
Schindler's List [VHS] $3.94 Steven Spielberg had a banner year in 1993. He scored one of his biggest commercial hits that summer with the mega-hit Jurassic Park, but it was the artistic and critical triumph of Schindler's List that Spielberg called "the most satisfying experience of my career." Adapted from the best-selling book by Thomas Keneally and filmed in Poland with an emphasis on absolute authenticity, Spielberg's ma... |
|
|
Murder She Purred: A Mrs. Murphy Mystery [VHS] $9.99 Disney's delightful whodunnit mystery Murder She Purred is told through the eyes of two four-legged critters considerably smarter than the humans they are observing. Based on the novel by Rita Mae Brown, the film is set in a small Virginia town where secrets run as deep as Southern-style charm. Mary Minor "Harry" Haristeen (Ricki Lake) calls the shots around town as she runs the post office. But t... |
|
|
Contech CRO101 Scarecrow Motion Activated Sprinkler $59.99 The Contech Electronics Scarecrow Motion-Activated Sprinkler presents an innovative, humane way to keep pets and wildlife from disturbing your yard and garden without the use of complicated traps or potentially hazardous chemicals. The sprinkler combines a surprise spray of water with unexpected motion and noise to create a safe, effective deterrent to unwanted visitors, helping keep your garden l... |
|
|
Dremel 7300-PT 4.8-Volt Pet Grooming Kit $24.97 The Dremel Pet Grooming Kit offers a safe, effective way to keep your pet's nails neat and trim. Rather than risk damage and discomfort with clippers or scissors, use the kit's rotary tool for painless, easy grooming of your pet's nails. The rotary tool gently grinds down claws using speeds that are appropriate to the task. And because it is cordless, the rotary tool provides optimum control over ... |
|
|
Nite Guard Solar NG-001 Predator Control Light, Single Pack $16.67 The Nite Guard solar-powered night predator light is a maintenance-free unit that keeps nocturnal predators away from your birds, livestock and property. Dimensions L x W x H (in.): 3 x 1 x 2, Removal Of: Nocturnal predators, Single, Pair, or Set: Single, Power Source: Solar, Indoor/Outdoor Use: Outdoor, Material Type: Sealed temperature resistant plastic, Includes: Auto on/off... |
|
|
Mission: Impossible--Ghost Protocol $7.87 In the exciting fourth entry in the successful action series, an attack on the Kremlin leaves IMF agent Ethan Hunt (Tom Cruise) and his team falsely accused of international terrorism. Forced to go underground, they must race against time to clear their names while trying to stop a plot to orchestrate a nuclear war between the United States and Russia. Jeremy Renner, Simon Pegg, Paula Patton, Mich... |
|
|
WALLENSTEIN RUBINSTEIN Mozart Haydn RCA Shaded Dog 1S 4S Audiophile Near Mint US $7.99
|
Flower series Metallic Dog Cat Pet Personalized Collar Bowl cloth brush Maltese US $9.95
|
|
MUNCH Bloch Schelomo PIATEGORSKY RCA Shaded Dog 5S 6S Audiophile Near Mint US $7.99
|
25 VTG 2 TONE ROOTED HAIR TROLL 1 2 ORANGE 1 2 LIGHT BROWN DARLING DRESS v370 US $19.99
|
|
FIEDLER Liszt RCA Shaded Dog 7S 9S Audiophile Near Mint US $9.99
|
Beetle three dimentional Yellow Gel case for Samsung Galaxy S i9000 T959 Vibrant US $14.90
|
|
My Chemical Romance hoodie Black Parade Size L US $6.00
|
Beetle three dimentional White soft jelly case Gel case for iphone4g 4s US $14.90
|
|
Hedgehog three dimentional Hot Pink soft jelly case Gel case for iphone4g 4s US $15.90
|
25 VTG DAM REG DES TROLL MIXED COLOR HAIR AMBER EYES TRENDY INDIE OUTFIT v371 US $19.99
|
|
DogCat Clothes Crowned Cat Embroidered Polo Shirts A307 Pinksz XXL US $11.60
|
25 VTG DAM c64 TROLL NEW ORANGE MOHAIR ORIG AMBER EYES FABULOUS FROCK v372 US $24.99
|
|
Shopping printing Jelly case Gel case for Samsung Galaxy S2 i9100 US $6.99
|
Rainbow Jelly case Gel case for iphone 4g US $6.99
|
|
25 VTG DAM c64 TROLL MULTI TONE BLUE HAIR ORIG AMBER EYES AWESOME DRESS v373 US $25.49
|
Two tone leather case blackred TPU case for iphone4g 4s US $15.90
|
|
Books for Kids Danger The Dog Yard Cat by Libby Riddles Iditarod Winner US $1.99
|
25 VTG DAM c64 TROLL ORIG WHITE HAIR AMBER EYES LOOKS LIKE A PRINCESS v375 US $25.49
|
|
Cat Printed Foldable PVC Plastic Pet Bowl Orange White US $4.39
|
Chic wallet style navy high quality Genuine leather Suede case for iphone4g 4s US $38.90
|
| Add Ebay Auctions to your Website |